Wendover Mansion may be the answer to the question, “Can we all stay together without actually staying together?” The French Mediterranean estate is enormous, but the important piece is that the property functions as a compound, with a substantial separate guest residence giving part of the group genuine independence. The main house brings the glamour: soaring hallways, modern art, theater and large social spaces. Outside, a long pool, lawn and landscaped gardens create the shared center. This is the house we’d look at for grandparents joining an extended family, two families traveling together, or a household bringing staff. Everybody gets the same address, but nobody has to share every breakfast. Wendover’s real luxury is not size. It’s boundaries.